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Assisted Living vs. Staying at Home
Posted on December 21, 2013 at 11:39 AM |
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Assisted Living vs. Staying at Home. Are you considering the option of moving to an assisted living community or trying to stay at home? Most people I consult with tell me they are trying to stay in their homes for as long as possible. Here are some things to consider. Assisted living adds a safety component to seniors living alone. It can be the difference of life and death. Falling is one of the most frequent accidents I see in the elderly, and falls can change your life in an instant. If you hit your head, or land so that you cannot push an emergency button dangling for your neck or on your wrist, you may not get the life saving help you need. I just spoke to a woman who fell in her garage and lay there all day until a neighbor across the street came home from work and saw her as he was picking up the paper from his driveway. Another client fell while her husband was out of the house, and even with an emergency device hanging from her neck, she could not activate it. The “I’ve fallen and I can’t get up” device is good to have, but not always the answer. Having people checking on you frequently throughout the day, or living with you in your home, raises the odds that you will be saved.
Many times I am called in to do assessments, manage renovations, and stage homes for safety and maneuverability. Some homes are easily adapted to the physical capabilities of the client, and others are not. If not, assisted living is the beginning of a journey to a safer, healthier life, providing the support that you need. Assisted living communities also provide a social setting to develop friendships, while living at home can be very isolating, a common cause of senior depression. Some see isolation as the lesser of two evils when compared to the fear of moving and the unknown. If you could only observe the positive changes I see in my clients (and my own mother) who have moved to new communities, you would think twice about staying at home. They are transformed - happier, healthier, and enjoying new friends and activities, with a full support system. Additionally, seniors lose the energy and/or ability to properly maintain their homes, and when I come to list a property for sale, I discover a plethora of maintenance and repair issues that need to be addressed. Properties deteriorate without attention, and so does the value. Don’t let the fear of moving paralyze you. This next step can be an exciting adventure...not the end, but a new beginning! It can boost your social activities, lift your spirits and provide a safe environment in which to enjoy your life. There are many communities to choose from; just take the first step. |
Waiting to Sell? How Rising Interest Rates Will Impact You
Posted on August 31, 2013 at 5:13 PM |
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As published in the Savannah Morning News - 18 August 2013 Waiting to Sell? How Rising Interest Rates Will Impact You... Maybe, but how long will it take, and what is the opportunity loss? As they say, “cash in hand…” If you sell for a little less than you might next spring, you have money in hand and can get on with your life. Here are my reasons to sell NOW: 1. Locally, our market is bustling, although most families with children have already settled in their new homes for the start of the school year. While you are waiting (and the summer passed you by), those buyers have bought. Soon the holidays will be upon us and those that are left will retreat until next year. Don’t miss this window of opportunity. 2. With the economy improving, mortgage rates are rising. Many buyers believe the bottom of the market has come and gone, and they see housing prices rising. They are especially motivated to buy now while rates are still low and the market has stabilized. 3. For the last 6 years, buyers have been a fearful bunch, worried they would pay too much. It’s been a Buyer’s market, but not so today. With less inventory to choose from, and fewer distressed properties available, it has become a Seller’s market. Take advantage of it. 4. While higher rates are spurring sales and actually helping the housing market, they affect the buyers’ ability to buy the amount of home they could purchase a year ago. The upward trend of home values and mortgage rates directly affects the buyer’s ability to qualify for a home mortgage. This means the longer a buyer waits, the house they saw a few months ago may now be out of their price range. Coupled with the increased mortgage rates, the payment may now be out of their reach. It’s a double whammy that removes a segment of the buyers from the market. Rates have increased more than a percent since last year. 5. Rising mortgage rates are beginning to impact the housing market. Pending home sales declined in June after reaching the highest level in more than six years, according to the National Association of Realtors® (NAR). NAR chief economist, Lawrence Yun, noted that rates began to rise in May, taking some of the momentum out of the contract activity in June. 6. Following the onslaught of foreclosures and bankruptcies, there are many potential buyers who have risen from the rubble, now qualified to purchase a home. These folks have been renting for the last few years, but believe in the American Dream of home ownership. They are a determined bunch, and they will buy again…it could be your home. 7. Although foreclosures are on the decline, short sales continue to increase, with lenders arranging deals before they even process their first foreclosure filing on a delinquent homeowner’s property. Forbes real estate writer, Morgan Brennan, states that during the first quarter of 2013, short sales increased 79% versus a year earlier, thanks in part to the fact that short sale guidelines were loosened. It stands to reason short sales will continue to pull home values down, slowing market recovery. 8. According to Jed Kolko, Trulia’s Chief Economist, it’s 44% cheaper to buy versus rent. In fact, homeownership is cheaper than renting in all of America’s 100 largest metros. That’s because low mortgage rates have kept buying almost as affordable, relative to renting, as it was last year. Renters are making the shift into home ownership. 9. The old mantra was “Sell high, buy low”. Today, it’s “Sell low, buy low”. If you are buying, your perceived “loss” is minimized by the lower purchase price for your next home. 10. Both CoreLogic and Altos Research (real estate data trackers) predict this surge in home values won’t last. They say several variables, including increased inventory and higher mortgage rates, will slow the pace of growth and recovery. I say, there’s no crystal ball….is it worth it to wait? 11. We still have underwater homeowners, with mortgages higher than the market value of their homes. Until these properties appreciate, these owners are trapped in their homes, causing a drag in the market recovery. According to Daren Blomquist, vice president of RealtyTrac, an Irvine, Calif.-based foreclosure site, there are 11.3 million borrowers who are upside-down. He predicts it will take 2 to 3 years until they gain equity, allowing these buyers to re-enter the market. Housing recovery is complicated and unpredictable. What we do know, is that locally, we have serious purchasers in the market NOW. My listings are selling quickly and inventory is in demand (that’s a GOOD thing!). Economists are predicting even higher rates this year, so while the buyers are hot, be IN the market. Who knows what tomorrow will bring? Next week in Moving Mom…Buying a Short Sale in Today’s Market |
Are You Sure That's a Bedroom?
Posted on August 31, 2013 at 5:06 PM |
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As published in the Savannah Morning News - 4 August 2013 The Truth About Gross Living Area “Not so”, I say, feeling confident that I am backed by appraisers everywhere. When financing is involved, appraisers are all about getting it right. Not only is a lender interested in how many bedrooms you have, but they want to know the true square footage of the home as well. Why? Because when they represent the lender, they don’t want to exaggerate the value, causing the lender to provide an excessive loan amount. According to D. Scott Murphy, SRA, who writes for the Georgia Real estate Appraisers Board, he believes, in terms of value, that the overall living space, or gross living area (GLA), is one of the most important elements of a home. The American National Standard Institute (ANSI) gives appraisers a number of standards for calculating GLA. Let’s start with the bedroom argument. According to the standards, a bedroom is defined as a room of “adequate size”, which has no less than 100 square feet, and must have a closet, window and door. It must be heated, cooled and finished to the same quality as the rest of the house. So folks, that walk-in closet (with the hidden closet/storage area inside) may have served as a bedroom, but the appraiser won’t count it. The most common and unknown factor is that a bedroom must also have ready access to a FULL bath room, with a tub and/or shower, toilet and sink. Think about this: You may have a bonus room over the garage; it has a closet, window, and door, is heated, cooled, and finished to the same quality as the rest of the house, but you have to go down the stairs and across the house to use the bathroom. That does not function on the long-term basis as a bedroom. Mr. Murphy states, “Another common scenario is that you might have four ‘bedrooms’ on the second floor of a house. Three of the bedrooms have private baths. How is someone in the fourth bedroom supposed to get to the bathroom?” He has a point. The most common scenario: “Bedrooms” serviced by a half bath do not function on a long-term basis as a bedroom. In both cases, these rooms are considered a den or office. Now, let’s consider how gross living area is measured. As Realtors®, we often take the measurement from the county tax records, but occasionally, sellers will tell us they have added rooms to the house, enclosed a garage, or finished a bonus room. If the additional square footage is not included in the tax records, and there aren’t any notations on the records regarding the addition, it strongly suggests to us that there may not have been permits pulled when the work was done.* When preparing a listing in the Multiple Listing Service, we must choose an option to indicate where we got the square footage information. Most listings reflect the square footage was found in the county tax records, but occasionally we see it was provided from an appraisal or the seller. Sellers beware. You can be held liable for your information, so be accurate. Realtors® usually assume areas that are heated and cooled should be included in the GLA. However, ANSI standards define “finished area” as “an enclosed area in a house suitable for year-round use, embodying walls, floors, and ceilings that are similar to the rest of the house.” So, without finished walls or heating and cooling vents, the porch you just enclosed is not going to measure up. When measuring GLA, measurements must be taken to the nearest inch or tenth of a foot, and floor area must be reported to the nearest square foot. Garages are specifically excluded. There is also the standard that says if any portion of the floor is below the grade of the ground, it is considered below grade space and CANNOT be included in GLA. Value is given to these below grade spaces; they are just handled separately. All appraisers use the same measurement standards as a basis for determining GLA; however, there may be some local exceptions, so it is important to use a local appraiser. Misrepresentation by you and/or your Realtor® can have legal repercussions. It is critical that you recognize these factors and determine gross living area correctly, as this forms the foundation for the valuation of the entire property. *Caution: Square footage added without permits will be counted by the appraiser, and can become an issue with the buyers. Additionally, it can resurface when they resell the house. After closing, buyers sometimes sue sellers when they discover undisclosed, non-permitted improvements. The new owner may suffer damages (they charge back to you) when City or County building inspectors force the owner to pay penalties, remove the addition, or bring the property up to code. Next week in Moving Mom…Waiting to Sell? How Rising Mortgage Rates |
Possession Paralysis - Do you feel trapped by stuff?
Posted on July 29, 2013 at 6:42 PM |
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As published in the Savannah Morning News - 28 July 2012 Possession paralysis, surprisingly, is real. David Ekerdt, a gerontologist with the University of Kansas, was in search
of answers. He and his team wanted to
know whether the sheer volume of possessions that seniors acquire over decades
become an obstacle to late-life downsizing. Specializing in senior move management and real estate services, I know how
physically and cognitively daunting the process can be for my clients. Not only are they trying to assist with
packing and sorting, but making the hundreds of small decisions required to
sell their home and make a move just wears them out. To better assist my clients, I was especially
interested in the outcome of Dr. Ekerdt’s study. Dr. Ekerdt acknowledged that real estate closings and apartment leases
create added deadlines and greater pressure.
Coupled with the emotional element of moving, the need to unload
possessions in the downsizing process can be particularly difficult for
seniors. Nobody had really documented
that the need to unload possessions affected seniors’ decisions about moving to
more manageable quarters – until now. Dr. Ekerdt was able to insert several questions into the continuing national
Health and Retirement Study in 2010 and gathered data from almost 1,100
community-dwelling adults over age 60. “It
confirms all the anecdotal things that lawyers, geriatricians and families tell
us: Stuff can be
a problem,” he said. We’re not talking about hoarding, a disorder in which the inability to
dispose of even useless objects becomes extreme. This is normal clutter: 60
percent of respondents said they had more possessions than they needed. The
proportion didn’t vary by gender or bear much relationship to personality
traits, but people who were married (more acquirers per household) and
wealthier, with bigger homes, were more likely to feel “over-provisioned,”
probably because they simply had more space into which to stuff more stuff. Many of the folks I talk to claim their stuff has sentimental value and the
associated memories make it difficult to part with it. But Dr. Ekerdt and his colleagues, who have conducted
100 interviews in movers’ households, learned that stuff may not even be
particularly treasured. “We hear
somewhat about special, cherished things, but we hear more about just
quantities of generic possessions,” he said. “It’s a problem of volume as much
as sentiment.” I’ve experienced this with seniors who buy in great quantities. I might be packing their 30 rolls of paper
towels, a case of liquid hand soap dispensers, loads of duplicate spices, pantry
items, etc. I attribute this phenomenon to
Depression Era babies, who may have experienced rationing, and may still fear
that supplies will run out! It’s not so important when people can’t park in their garages or close their
closet doors. But when Dr. Ekerdt asked
respondents how reluctant they felt about moving, considering the effort
required to transfer or dispose of their belongings, he found that 48 percent
felt “very reluctant” to move and another 30 percent were “somewhat reluctant.” That adds up to more than three-quarters of
people over 60 feeling trapped, to some degree, by stuff. Are people so afraid to leave their stuff that they forgo simplifying their
lives and moving to smaller abodes? Do
they choose to age in place because they feel trapped in a larger home? In the study, more than a quarter of these
older people said their families or friends had urged them to downsize, and of
those, half said that family and friends had offered to help. Almost always, I hear from my clients that their children will want their
things - their china, crystal, antiques, photo albums, etc. The truth is, in real life, their children
are Baby Boomers who already have their own stuff and are beginning to shed
what they have. Unless they are
extremely sentimental (which is rare), I do not see Boomers loading up their
cars and hauling Mom and Dad’s beloved treasures away. A few boxes of photos, maybe, but not much
else. Disposing of stuff is the hardest part of my job. Dr. Ekerdt found that the proportion of
seniors who had methodically disposed of possessions was not high. Only 3
percent said they had sold “many things” in the past year. “People have these
‘Antique Road Show’ dreams, but many of our possessions are not very salable,”
Dr. Ekerdt said. Only 14 percent had
given many things away to family and friends, and 23 percent had donated to a
charity or community groups, probably the simplest way (though still not
simple) to get rid of stuff. In fact, the study showed that lots of people hadn’t gotten rid of anything!
Possession Paralysis was alive and well, and very, very real. Their families will not be grateful when a
safer or simpler home is needed, especially in response to a health crisis, and
the whole job of downsizing and disposal falls to them. Do you really want to leave this burden to
your family? REALLY? Next
week in Moving Mom…Are you sure that’s a bedroom? The truth about Gross Living
Area. Stay tuned! |
Ditch the Lawn Mower! Is Condo Living for You?
Posted on July 29, 2013 at 6:37 PM |
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As published in the Savannah Morning News - 21 July 2013 Ditch
the Lawn Mower! Is condo living for you? At this time of year, many of my
neighbors are toiling under 98 degree heat, and above the hum of the lawn
mower, I hear them swearing they want to move to a condo. No more lawn mower…lots more golf!
Sound familiar? If the lure of a carefree, turnkey lifestyle
appeals to you, then certainly a condo is a solution. So, how does condo ownership differ from the
home you just sold?
First of all, know what you are buying. The term “condominium” is actually a legal
type of ownership. People tend to use
“condo” and “town houses” to describe a type of dwelling, when it actually
applies to the type of ownership and/or type of dwelling and associated
ownership rights. The big difference is
whether you own the land underneath the dwelling or not.
Fee Simple ownership, as opposed to
condominium ownership, includes the land under the unit. Town homes are often sold fee simple and a
survey marks the boundaries of the property included in the sale. Many developments have common roofs and
walls between units, and the owners are responsible for the maintenance of the
exteriors and the landscapes within their boundaries. Common areas are maintained by the home
owner’s association, but there may still be some maintenance required by the
home owner. Some important questions related to
fee simple ownership:
Condominium ownership differs from
fee simple ownership in that it is an estate in real property consisting of an
individual interest in an apartment, and an undivided common interest in the
common areas in the development, such as land, parking areas, elevators,
stairways, exterior elements, etc. In
effect, the condominium permits ownership of a specific horizontal layer of
airspace as opposed to the traditional view of vertical property ownership from
the center of the earth to the sky. In
other words, you own the right to the space inside the unit.
Under individual state laws, the
developer/owner of the condominium executes and records a master deed together
with a condominium declaration. The declaration is recorded, and is
accompanied by a copy of the bylaws, a condominium map, floor plans and
elevations. It is important that you
review these documents to make sure the rules and regulations are acceptable to
you and your lifestyle.
Whether buying a condominium or fee
simple dwelling, these types of ownership require a bit more due diligence than
buying a single family house. A carefree
lifestyle is appealing to many and can be a great choice if you do your
homework.
Understand
resale rules.
Resale of a unit may be subject to the right of first refusal of other
owners. If so, it delays the sale of the
unit for a specified time period until all owners have been notified and given
the time to come forward to match or better your contract offer. If this right exists, check to make sure
there are no financing pitfalls, such as the inability to obtain a mortgage for
yourself or a future buyer.
Know
your total costs.
Condos are usually more reasonably priced than single family homes, but
the lifestyle cost (mortgage, utilities, maintenance, and association fees) may
be equal to or, in some cases, greater than those of your previous single
family home. Sometimes there are two
association fees, one for the condo or townhome, and one for the neighborhood
surrounding the complex. Planned Unit
Developments often include a mix of different types of dwellings, with common
area maintenance required outside the complex where your unit is located. In that case, you may be responsible for two
monthly fees, rather than one.
Can
you rent out your unit? Check the association documents. Rental of units is often restricted by length
of lease, or by how many times a unit may be leased within a year. This controls the transient nature of
rentals, and keeps the full-time residents happy. Also, if a development goes beyond the
allowable rented percentage of units, lenders will not approve mortgages, which
affect re-sales and thus values. If home
owners agree, diligent association managers can control the number of rentals
permitted in order to comply with lender requirements.
Check
minutes to Association Meetings. You’ll learn a lot. Check a few months back to know what the
issues are with the association.
Are
there any outstanding assessments? During your due diligence, make sure the
seller of your unit is up to date on all assessments and ask the association
manager if there are assessments under consideration. Outstanding assessments don’t have to be a
deal killer, and should be negotiated with the seller before you close.
How
many owners are past due on Home Owner’s Dues? Too many delinquent
owners can bankrupt an association. Be
sure to ask the question, and review the budget. Not a budget whiz? Ask your accountant to review it and give
their opinion of solvency.
We, as Realtors®, can guide you
through the process and help get you the information you need to make an
informed choice. So, if you are ready to
simplify your life, get rid of the lawn mower and let’s start packing!
Next
week in Moving Mom…Possession Paralysis – Do You Feel Trapped by Stuff? Stay tuned! |
Working with Hoarders - Oh My! Part III
Posted on July 29, 2013 at 6:15 PM |
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Working with Hoarders - Oh my! Part II
Posted on July 29, 2013 at 6:08 PM |
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Working with Hoarders - Oh My! Part I
Posted on July 29, 2013 at 5:56 PM |
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Embracing the Old - Go Retro!
Posted on July 29, 2013 at 5:50 PM |
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As published in the Savannah Morning News - 23 June 2013 What if my home is hopelessly out of
date? Realtors frequently face the
dilemma of helping a client sell their home that has not been updated since the
50’s, 60’s or 70’s. When there is no
budget for changing out counter tops and appliances, and major renovations are
out of the question, then embrace it!
Going Retro has its own charm, and you can work with it instead of
working against it. And, believe it or
not, the look is making a comeback!
Oh drats, you say, I hated avocado
green and harvest gold the first time around…but doesn’t it always recycle with
a twist? You can stage an outdated home
by blending the old charm with new clean, crisp, modern details and accessories.
Cleanliness can make the difference
when pulling off a retro look. If the
flamingo pink bath tile is mildewed and the grout is cracked or yellowed, the
bath will just look old. But whiten it
up and caulk the cracks, and now you have something to work with.
Eliminate the issues you can
change…wall paper borders are out. And,
so is most wall paper. The dusty blues
and rose pinks from the 80’s and 90’s are not retro, just out of date. Wall paper can be removed with an equal
mixture of Downey and water in a spray bottle.
Non-toxic and safe, this good smelling concoction is my answer to
removing wall paper and borders. Next, clean
the walls and you are ready for paint.
When I am showing a home to
prospective buyers, I always advise my clients to not turn down a house because
of the color of the carpet or paint.
Still, it’s best to go neutral when repainting the walls, as most buyers
will not object to a clean, beige look since it goes with anything. It’s the easiest thing to change and the
least costly, so once the wall paper is down, choose a new neutral: beige or tan, off-white, taupe or gray,
greige (a blend of gray and beige) or grawn (a blend of gray and brown), and
make it pop with some white trim paint.
Are there hard wood floors hiding
under old carpeting? Seriously consider
ripping it out and refinishing the floors, as this is a prime asset! Are the mirrors in the bath turning from
age? If it is just the edges, consider
using trim boards to “frame them”, and paint them with matching white trim
color.
Removal of draperies that are worn
or dated, but not vintage or retro, will give a room a fresh look. Another plus, taking down old drapes, removing
carpeting and adding a new coat of paint will help eliminate odors, such as
smoke or pet smells, from the home. Smelly
homes are hard to sell, and we have been in plenty where buyers turn on their
heels and exit quickly.
Here are some tips for showcasing a
Retro home:
A stager and handyman can easily handle
everything that we have mentioned in this article, with the exception of
installing new carpet and refinishing wood floors. Any home can be improved with these
fairly easy remedies, so before you list, spruce it up. These relatively inexpensive suggestions will
help sell your home and get you moving!
Next
week in Moving Mom…Working with hoarders – oh my! Stay tuned! |
Does your house pass the "Hotel Test"
Posted on July 29, 2013 at 5:41 PM |
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As published in the Savannah Morning News - 16 June 2016 Does
your house pass the “Hotel Test”?
Adopting the “Hotel Philosophy” is
another way of looking at this concept.
In a hotel, you carry in a small bag of personal belongings. Everything else you need is there and no
unnecessary items are cluttering up the space.
Staging defines living space and how to use it.
As I mentioned last week, space is a
commodity, a luxury. Staging for space
will showcase the house, rather than the contents of the dwelling or the
personality of its inhabitants. Open
space makes a house more attractive to buyers.
Can a buyer envision living their
lives in your home? Not if it is full of
your photos, your personal collections, your stuff. It gets in the way of a potential buyer’s
vision of that space belonging to them.
When I stage a home, it is for one
of two reasons: to live, or to sell.
Staging
to live will allow the inhabitants’
personalities to shine through…creating an aesthetically pleasing, comfortable
environment that reflects the particular needs, interests, tastes and lifestyle
of the family members. It is NOT what I
do when I am staging to prepare a house for sale.
Staging
to sell is quite the opposite…itcreates an environment in which the
buyers can visualize themselves in your home, and how it will meet their needs
and fulfill their desires.
So, as we get back to the basics of
how to reach this goal, here are a few tips to help you achieve the Hotel Feel:
1.
Everything is neat, clean and nothing is out of place. 2.
Life is pared down to the essentials. 3.
Remove personal mementos, photographs, refrigerator magnets and the
like. 4.
Every activity has a defined area:
sleeping, eating, storage, watching TV, etc.
I have mentioned in other staging
articles that most homes I stage could lose 50 percent of the furnishings and
furniture to reach this goal. I don’t
mean to “empty” the house, but depersonalize, de-clutter and expand the space
visually through the use of less stuff. Become a minimalist, where less is best.
We all know that stuff creeps in
over time, and a stager can look at your home with a fresh set of eyes and an
objective point of view. In fact, if you
leave the house, your stager will have an easier time of it! Give them the license to pack up your
collections, move your furniture to the garage or a storage unit, and work with
only what they need to create the environment necessary to sell the house.
Oh no, you say, I can’t give up my
things. I always tell my clients, if we
start packing now, you are closer to your goal.
As we stage, we also pack for the move.
Perhaps your next home will be large enough to keep it all. If not, it’s a great time to start paring
back and selling, donating, and/or consigning items that you can’t take with
you.
Floor planning for the next place is
an invaluable tool to help make decisions on which furniture to keep. A professional stager can help you with floor
planning as well. This is the single
most important step in any move…it is my road map to success and I would not
consider doing a move without it.
So, as you stage your home does the
house pass the “Hotel Test”? Can a buyer
imagine bringing in their personal items and making your house their home? If so, you have increased your chances of
selling it faster, and at a better price.
Next
week in Moving Mom…What if my home is out of date? Stay tuned! |
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